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原始链接: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43448408
一篇Hacker News帖子链接了一篇aeon.co的文章,该文章主张更深入地思考愤怒。一位评论者“tibbar”不同意文章将愤怒主要归因于复仇欲的观点。“tibbar”认为愤怒是一种更普遍的情绪,常常与痛苦的不公正经历有关。他们以对自己的愤怒为例,指出在这种情况下复仇无关紧要。“tibbar”还告诫不要自动压制愤怒,指出长期压抑情绪的潜在代价,以及由于没有提供适当的反馈而可能导致触发行为持续下去的风险。
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As an aside, while being easily angered is not good, I also think it's equally bad ritually suppress anger, because (a) that takes a toll over time that you eventually won't be able to suppress and (b) if you don't provide "feedback" to whatever it is that's angering you, it will probably happen again.
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