在滑铁卢的奋斗造就了我们
The struggle that made us in Waterloo

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2025年,一位滑铁卢大学电子与计算机工程系毕业生在博客中回顾了2008年金融危机期间的艰难岁月,并将当时的困境与当前软件工程专业的学生面临的不确定性作了对比。作者回忆了当时令人难以承受的课程作业、几乎不可能通过的考试(平均分低的令人震惊),以及持续不断的失败恐惧和退学压力。实习的寻找同样残酷,数百份申请最终换来的是录取被撤销,不得不重操旧业,回到高中时期做过的一些工作。高年级的学长学姐们会安慰说“会越来越容易的”,但作者意识到,那只是他们学会了更好地应对这个系统,而这背后是焦虑和大量酒精的支撑。尽管经历了诸多磨难,作者仍然珍视那段时光,强调在残酷的学习过程中建立起来的持久友谊。作者给当前学生的建议是:坚持下去,互相支持,拥抱挑战,因为这些挑战会深刻地塑造你们,最终证明是值得的。

Hacker News 上的一篇帖子讨论了 intention.bearblog.dev 博客文章 “在滑铁卢的挣扎造就了我们”。这篇文章在考虑或就读滑铁卢大学的人群中引起了共鸣。 一位申请滑铁卢大学的准学生认为这篇文章很有见地,既令人畏惧又令人安心。另一位评论者表达了失望之情,认为滑铁卢大学毕业生经常不留在加拿大创业,暗示他们对自己的教育不够重视。第三位评论者形容这篇文章“残酷”,并表示希望自己也能在那里学习。帖子中还包含了旧金山“AI创业学校”的广告。
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  • 原文
    The struggle that made us in Waterloo | Intentions

    I can feel uncertainty looming over the software industry as the hiring frenzy of the COVID era has given way to layoffs and hiring freezes. The power transferring from employee to employer is palpable. I see former coworkers, seasoned professionals grapple with imposter syndrome, questioning their self-worth. Despite the enormous privilege they've enjoyed, the feelings weigh on them all the same. If that's how they feel, what would it feel like to be a Waterloo student today? It brings me back to when I entered the ECE program amid the 2008 global financial crises.

    The first day of class, Donna Strickland—who would later go on to win a Nobel Prize—wrote a problem on the whiteboard, turned around, and said "This problem is going to be on your final exam, so pay attention". I had no idea what she was talking about, nor was I able to comprehend the problem. Next class, Calculus, the professor scribbles on the blackboard and says, "We'll be reviewing integration for the first couple of weeks. Raise your hand if you've learned this before". Most of the class raises their hand. I feel a pit in my stomach. What is he talking about? Then there was a time when a student raised his hand and asked a question in Mandarin. Professor responded back in Mandarin and continued to teach his lesson like nothing happened.

    If that was the classroom experience, exams weren't much better. Midterm exams, or as it was often referred to "Hell week". A series of multi-hour exams all in one week. The relief you feel writing the last exam is indescribable. Always followed by multi-day binge drinking to numb the feelings and forget the stress you just endured. When the midterm grades come in, it feels like a collective gut punch, a crushing 40% class average. For many, it's our first real taste of failure. And then come the grading gymnastics. Some professors curve the average up to a barely-passing 60% while others shift weight to the final, making the midterm pointless. As the semester concludes, the final report card arrives and I'm flooded with relief over a passing grade. New year brings new faces into the class, and a few close friends no longer there. A hard realization washed over me that not everybody made it. I start having nightmares for the first time in my life. The same nightmare, again and again: I get the report card, I fail, I'm kicked out, I don't have a job, I let everybody down. The nightmare would continue years after graduating. I woke up covered in sweat, panicked, slowly coming to and remembering that it was a dream, that I did end up graduating and my life continued.

    Just as academics felt like survival, so did finding internships. Trying to write a resume and get a job four months into school was comedic. The job hunt was a performance we all had to take part in. Employers knew we had no real experience, but we competed anyway-padding resumes, grasping for any edge over classmates. I sent out over 400 applications, received a handful of interviews and finally landed an offer. But on the day I was supposed to start, I got an email stating the company had no money to pay me and therefore closed the position. Just like that, it was gone. I ended up back at my high school job as an electrician, something Waterloo approved without hesitation - because in 2008, they knew how brutal the market was.

    The journey was one of the biggest emotional roller coasters of my life. Filled with self-doubt, I'd look to seniors for reassurance. They'd always say, "It gets easier". I took that to mean the environment would soften, but that wasn't the case. Every year, familiar faces disappeared-some dropped out, others failed. A year in school felt like a round of Squid Game - relentless, high-stakes and unforgiving. You never knew who would make it to the next stage. It's didn't get easier, I just get better at playing the game. I figured out learning strategies that work for me. I stop going to class and just locked myself in the library before exams. My anxiety would fuel my rise in grades with little to no love for the subject. I learned to grind and when stress got high, we drank. It took many years to unwind my alcohol use as my coping mechanism. Some of my friends never did. Yet despite everything-the brutal workload, the fear, the constant pressure - those years remain one of my favorite chapters of my life. The struggle forged the strongest relationships I have to this day, 15 years later. And for a long time after graduating, I found myself wanting to go back.

    For those of you that are in the middle of it, stay strong and keep going. Lean in and lean on each other. Learn, struggle, celebrate, fail and get back up. This time in your life will shape you in ways you won't understand until much later. And when you finally do, you'll look back and know-it was worth it. I believe in you.

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